The courage to be YOU & The Enneagram
Workshop in beautiful Rancho Santa Fe San Diego
Dates: 3 days, 8th to 10th of November
by Danish Spiritual Psychologist, Spiritual Teacher, Minister and acclaimed Author, Kisser Paludan.
This workshop is an invitation back home to your inherent beautiful, authentic Self. To learn to fully embrace and love who you truly are so that you can live more fully, love wholeheartedly, and unfold your potential in the world by living “on purpose”.
The workshop offers meditations, exercises, teachings and an opportunity to connect deeply with your true self and other Souls in the group on the journey from fear to love.
Dates: 3 days, November 8-10,
from 10 am to 5 pm
Place: Private Rancho Santa Fe Residence
Day 1: Know Yourself and Set Yourself Free
The root cause of longing, dissatisfaction, stress, or even depression stems from our ability to truly know ourselves. Trusting and embracing who we are in this world is essential. When we are not fully authentic or cannot trust ourselves to express our own hearts and truths, we may feel as though we’ve abandoned our true selves.
Hiding behind masks or conforming to expectations can make us feel disconnected and unfaithful to ourselves, which can be painful. To fulfill who you truly are and your purpose, self-awareness is key. You must learn to see, feel, and trust your inner being. The Enneagram offers a powerful and revealing tool to help remove the layers of identity we’ve often built up to feel loved, validated, accomplished, or accepted. It shows us how to fully accept, love, and trust who we are meant to be.
On this first day, we will explore the beauty of your Enneagram type, uncovering the traps and challenges that lead you away from what you truly desire. You will learn to recognize and embrace your whole self.
We will dive into how the Enneagram can support your journey towards greater self-awareness and authenticity, forming a foundation for a more fulfilling life. Your outer life is a reflection of your inner world, and the more deeply you know, love, and trust yourself, the more aligned your life will be.
You have come into this world to fully embrace and love who you are. Self-knowledge is essential to achieving this, and the Enneagram is a profound tool for deep self-discovery. It helps you understand your core fears, desires, and tendencies, revealing your greatest potential and guiding your personal growth journey
The day will be interactive and experiential, offering exercises that personalize and ground the insights gained through the Enneagram in your own life.
Day 2: The Power of Vulnerability
On this day, you will learn to identify the internal barriers, often hidden or unconscious, that prevent you from being your authentic self. We will explore vulnerability, face your inner super-ego (the internal judge), and discover the strength that lies in embracing and accepting it all.
One of the most important lessons you will ever learn is how to recognize these inner blocks that stop you from fully being yourself and loving who you are. By understanding these barriers, you can begin to transform feelings of insecurity, self-doubt, shame, guilt, and fear into actions that are grounded in love and authenticity.
The Enneagram is a powerful tool for identifying these inner obstacles, which are unique to each personality type. Within each of us, there is an internal “super-ego,” or judge, that works to keep us safely within the boundaries of our type. For example, when you venture beyond these limits—by asserting yourself, setting boundaries, or allowing vulnerability—your super-ego may trigger feelings of guilt, shame, or fear, pushing you back into the comfort zone of your ego.
True transformation comes with awareness. As you bring these unconscious patterns to light, you begin the process of healing and can step into the world more fully, sharing your true and beautiful self. This awareness will have a profound impact on all areas of your life, from your relationships to your career.
As you create more internal space, your soul is given the freedom to lead. Your life shifts from being directed by the ego to being led by the essence of who you truly are. During this workshop, you will personally experience the deep contrast between living from your ego and living from your essence.
To conclude our three-day journey, we will celebrate your unique and loving presence with a love ceremony.
Day 3: Authenticity & Relationships
When we don’t fully know, love, and trust ourselves, our relationships reflect that uncertainty. The key to building fulfilling, supportive, and loving relationships begins within ourselves.
Only when we have the courage to embrace our true selves can we feel secure in our relationships. If you hold back or adjust who you are in order to gain love, you will inevitably feel insecure. True safety in relationships comes from being authentically you.
On this third day, we will focus on practicing how to remain aligned with your inner wisdom, strength, and worth, even as you engage with the outside world. I will offer practical tools to help you stay connected, authentic, and courageous in your daily life.
We will conclude our three-day journey with a special ceremony, honoring and celebrating your unique, loving presence.
“The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.”
Joseph Campbell
“The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.”
Joseph Campbell
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Dates:
3 days, 8th to 10th of November
Time: 10 am to 5 pm.
Place: Rancho Santa Fe, San Diego
Price: $975.00
About Kisser Paludan
Led by Kisser Paludan, a Danish Spiritual Psychologist, renowned teacher, and acclaimed author.
With over 35 years of experience in both personal and professional development, my work integrates psychology and spirituality, drawing deeply from the wisdom of the Enneagram, A Course in Miracles, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
I specialize in creating a space where love, connection, and healing naturally flow. I believe that the sense of connectedness we cultivate together provides the sacred ground for profound learning and transformation.
This workshop is designed to be interactive, practical, and exercise-oriented, allowing each participant to personally experience the love and power of the Enneagram. Through meditations, exercises, and teachings, you’ll have the opportunity to connect deeply with your true self and the other beautiful souls in the group.
